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There are few things more painful and disruptive in our
lives than when our relationship is in crisis. Sadly, when we are
immersed in our relationship troubles, it is common to miss what may be
the truest source of our difficulties -- how we try to resolve our
problems may be our biggest problem.
Problems and crises come up in every relationship.
However, some couples come through their crises closer, stronger and
more intimate, while others become more distant or break up. What makes
the difference?
The key is understanding that the way that we interact
and try to resolve our problems may make the problems worse rather than
better. Under great duress, we often unintentionally fall into our
oldest and most unhelpful behaviors and patterns which inspire hurt,
anger and defensiveness and end up compounding the situation. This is
not a happy situation.
In this healing journey, we will focus on how you
interact with each other at the same time that we work on the problems
in the relationship. We will work through the historical issues that
are interfering with your current happiness, and we will uncover and
restore the underlying bond of love that may seem lost or out of reach.
Ultimately, the goal is to learn to relate in an open,
present, heart-connected way without giving up one's power or sense of
self. I invite you to embark on this journey of hope and greater love
and connection.
For more information or to set up an appointment,
please call me at (413) 527-2745. I look forward to hearing from you.
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